Dear Master, I’ve been hearing about allowing for a long time know. And I keep allowing – allowing abundance in my life, allowing all good things to happen. But I’m starting to think that I don’t know how to really allow, because nothing happens.
You know? A funny thing happened to Allowing on the way to enlightenment (…) the human hijacked it. The human said, “Okay, I’ve got to take over allowing,” and you think allowing now is allowing other people to steal your energy. That’s not allowing; that’s stupidity. You think allowing is just staying in your old ways. That’s not allowing; that’s just being stubborn.
You’ve taken allowing, some of you, and you’re using allowing to find parking spots at shopping malls. Shame on you! “I allow myself – woo, woo, woo, woo! – to create a parking spot.” That’s not allowing. That is psychic bullshit.
And you know what? A being who is truly in real allowing, not force-power-play-with-Adamus’-words allowing, somebody who’s really in allowing (…) never thinks about parking spots. They don’t have to. It’s just there. They don’t have to worry, “Am I going to get the best spot?” Park at the other end of the parking lot and walk maybe, but stop using it like it’s a power tool. It’s not at all. It’s the antithesis.
That sounds easy enough, but why is it so hard to allow?
[There are] several reasons why allowing is difficult: Because you’re used to power, force, intelligence, thinking. You’re used to something (…) aggressive.
So, you try that. It doesn’t usually work.
You can’t force yourself to allow. You can’t do allowing like you used to do meditation or some of you even did breathing. It became a discipline.
You cannot really do allowing as a discipline. It simply is. Allowing isn’t something you think your way through. (…) And in doing so, without having to think it through, you’re also allowing energies to serve you.
Allowing is letting down the resistance, the barriers, the mind games, the thoughts, the defensive systems and mechanisms you put around yourself, the fences that you put even in your physical energy field, but also in your mental energy field.
[Is to] realize everything that’s here in the Now. Not mentally. (…) You just do it by, well, being absolutely brave and bold and saying: “I’ve got nothing else to lose. I’m going to absolutely open right now.” And then stop thinking about it.
So, what is it that I need to allow?
Your Self. Your divinity. The I Am. (…) The moment you allow – true allowing – you come to your truth. Not universal truth, cosmic truth, God truth, angel truth, but your truth. That’s what you’re allowing – you.
Allowing means absolute opening to yourself, no matter what. No matter what is going on. You allow. You open and allow, and then stop thinking about it. Go about your everyday life. Go about whatever you want to do. “Stop thinking about it. Just get on with whatever you want to do.”
Allowing is the greatest tool when you get in trouble, when you’re in storms, when you’re in choppy waters, whatever metaphors you want to use for it (…), take a deep breath and allow.
Take five minutes. Listen to some music. Go for a walk, take a shower, whatever.
Each night when you go to bed and you lay your head down, instead of running all the tapes through your mind of what happened during the day and what’s going to happen tomorrow and all the projects you have, take a deep breath and just allow.
The person who is really allowing never has to think about [it]. They don’t have to try to do it as a mantra. (…) They’ve allowed and they don’t have to work at it.
They have to remind themselves once in a while, “Hey, lighten up a little bit,” and when you think about that, you remember, “Oh, that’s right. I’m getting back into just that human tight-ass, constipated, mental self.
How do I know I’m doing it right?
Don’t think if you’re doing allowing right either. It is just what it is. “Am I doing this right?” Take a deep breath. If you have to ask the question – obviously not doing it right. Allowing is simplicity.
Now take a deep breath and relax.
Oh, ok, so in other words, allowing is about trusting. But… I kind of have trust issues. Every time I trust, things don’t work out, and I get disappointed one more time. Can you teach me how to trust?
Trust is kind of a surrender, in a way (…). Just trust yourself. Even when you think it’s wrong, it’s still right. It really is. Even when you think, “Oh, I turned the wrong way; I did the wrong thing.”
What tends to happen when you don’t trust yourself? When you’re on this path, when you’re coming into your enlightenment and you don’t trust yourself? Everything will be ripped away so all you have left is you.
Trust yourself (…) changes all those dynamics. I can’t teach trust. I can only ask you to feel inside.
Now, you feel inside, you say, “Okay I’m going to trust myself,” two things happen. First of all, you say, “Well, I screwed up in the past.” No, I just told you. Creatorship is about trial and error. You didn’t screw up. It was an experience.
Secondly, the other alarm goes off, a bigger alarm, “Yeah, I can trust myself, but what about them? I can’t trust others, because they’re going to screw me over. The minute I let my defenses down, they’re going to come in. They’re going to take my house, my money, everything that I have. Manipulate me, take advantage of me.” No.
When you trust yourself, suddenly you trust everyone else. Actually (…) when you trust yourself, the word ‘trust’ goes out of the dictionary. It doesn’t even apply anymore.
And I know, I can hear some of you screaming, “But I tried this before and the minute I let my guard down, they took advantage of me.” Well,
(a) you didn’t let your guard down.
(b) they can’t take advantage of you, unless you’re kind of in that victim energy.
When you trust yourself, you will never be in the situation where you have to worry about trusting others or not trusting them. You’re never in that situation. It just doesn’t even come up.
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